That was scary to hear about your Mom. I hope that she is allowing them to help her. I have heard numerous stories of people wanting to get to their spouse because they need them. She apparently feels his need is greater than hers.

Good for you for letting your H be there for you. The more he feels that he is "good" for you, the more loving he will feel. I would say stop the R talks for now unless you are with your C. Focus on the good of each day and don't rush.

thinking of you. kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory