Thank you. You can only get to that point when you are ready. He may want to be civil, but he is not the one who has been betrayed. Right now, it's not about how he feels, or what he wants. It's about you being able to deal with the fact that his actions have hurt you. Now, this does not mean you need to cuss him out every time you talk to him, (although I had a great deal of fun messing with the SG when I was doing it). But in the long run I also regretted some of it, and feel much better just ignoring him now. You will have to make the decision on how you handle it.
Personally, I think just telling him you are angry will suffice, and you need to feel that way until you don't feel that way anymore. Civil? Sure. Nice. Hell no. There is a difference. If you want to be nice, be nice. If not, then keep it short, impersonal. Just as you don't know about his personal life, he has no reason to know about yours.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
