Thank you again! I have read and reread all your posts. Thank you. I will write more later, as you can imagine life is interesting at the moment.
All I can say is wow, I feel like I can walk upright again.
Given that I feel I am a fairly put together person, I did not realize how much dignity I had lost. Whatever happens from here on out matters little as compared to that.
I am having my moments for sure. Just left the grocery store crying as my favorite teller told me she loved me and gave me a giant hug. I mean, I have friends at the GROCERY STORE! I cannot believe how lucky I am.
Hi Allen! This is for you:
"Normally I would'nt reccomend it, but in your case I would suggest you attack from both ends."
[[Please insert horribly crass and perverted retort here regarding giving it to {stated tramp} from both ends.]]
Yeah, no problemo!
Right now I only hope I am not kicked off these boards during this time in my life and I am able to censor myself accordingly.
Today I called and left H message stating that "I might as well leave this in a message because this is not open to negotiation. Until this situation is resolved to my satisfication our son will remain here with me. You would be wise to advise OW to stay away from his school as it would not be a pleasant experience for her" (I have kept the teachers there more or less at bay - though of course they are professionals and behave accordingly - I have been downplaying H's relationship as they have inquired and its impact on my son. NO MORE!) I warned him in my sit down, I will no longer protect you.
Will post later about transparency plan in the works so you guys can critique and add.
Off to work and hopefully she will not call me for anything work related lol
