Ok...I'm looking for advice...and I swear to the vets I will follow it if its given.
I'm looking for a logical reason, other than "contact about D3", to unblock my ex's number from my cell phone. What will/could be the benefits to it?
I'm asking this because I now know that she knows her number is blocked. When she came to get D3 this morning I asked her about doing taxes and she very snippily said she already did hers yesterday, and that I would have known that she was doing them if her number hadnt been blocked on my cell phone.
I told her she could have called the house or used another phone to call my cell, and she said "I shouldnt have to". Then she said something like "Just think how much its gonna kill you on Friday nights not to get to say good nite to D3". (neener neener neener?)
I told her it wouldnt kill me, and it wont. I ended up walking over to her car and telling her something to the effect that if she really wanted to, she could still call my cell phone from her work phone to say goodnight to D3. But apparently she either doesnt want to or wasnt able to figure that out.
So I dunno...should I unblock her number? I mean she did threaten to murder me if I de-railed her gravy train...and she did say she would call the cops on me if I contacted her...so if she's contacting me, that could give me the false impression that it's ok to contact her.
So did I do the right thing by blocking her number? What logical reasons are there for unblocking it? Am I just making a bad sitch worse...as in pushing her further away with her number blocked...or is our not speaking to one another for the best?
I will say that I seem to be feeling a lot more anger and resent since we havent been speaking...so I dunno if unblocking will release any of that or not.
