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Router schedule worked. However, it's a matter
of time before she figures out that I have done something. I'm tring to construct what I will say.

Very quiet last night. She didn't say more than two words to me.

I went to bed early and slept very well. I'm sure she was up when the Internet went down.


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I would say "I have decided that I will no longer pay to have the internet used in my own home to carry on inappropriate conversations with other men. I suggest you make other arrangements if that's what you feel you need to do."

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Not in my house, does Starbuck's stay open late? They have internet.

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W said she is apartment hunting today. I said good and felt it. If she chooses to move out to persue long distance EA than bye. I'll be dating before the last box is out the door.

I'm sure this is a bit premature, but I would assume I offer no help packing and moving items. Other than to make sure nothing of mine is walking out.


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Two schools of thought on it. Well, three actually. One says "No way in hell -- this is your choice, you need to live it." The second is to "be the better choice," and be their best friend, and a best friend would help you pack, right? And the third is that you are SO unaffected by this, and confident in your decision, and upbeat, that "sure, no big deal -- I'll help you pack."

We're getting way ahead of ourselves though. If it comes to that, I"ll tell you what I would do.

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I think that since she is looking for the strong care taker I'll pack and help. That would confuse her.

I'm sure I'm ahead of the process, but I like to be prepared.


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Another quiet day yesterday. I had to work late. W and I had some kid scheduling to talk about but that was about it.

She told me over an email that the Internet was down last night. I guess I need to look into that;)


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lol


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I think it may just happen again tonite! smirk

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It's probably just the cable companies performing nightly maintenance and upgrades smile


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