I love having an iPhone... I can lay in bed next to my sleeping husband and instead of trying to cop a feel, comment on how *enlightened* I am at the moment for not doing so. Sigh. It's been 3 weeks since we last had sex and this year pledge to beak the cycle gets really, really hard about now.

Hap - you are absolutely right and I know it. The problem is I like to be able to just be agressive and get what I want (works in the world of clothed people) and I can't embrace that rather typically productive aspect of my being in bed. Sigh, if I were single I'd be a cougar. But luckily I have a man who loves me and I love him so I must embrace my sexuality differently in order for us to have a better sex life.

Any good historical romances that I can tolerate? I resonate with Ellen from ken follet's pillars of the earth, and generally shuck the Austen material before it may get good (recently tried to plow thru Persuasian and it drove me bonko).

Thanks for letting me vent instead of futily waking my husband up trying to get a morning quickie before taking the kids to school (me waking him up for sex never works, but try and try again is usually my motto)...

ps: K, i was trying to inspire a guessing game . what kind of prize would u like?