VALENTINES DAY COMING!!

[cesco]

Oh Sandi, thank you for those words..
I realise my emotions get the best of me, and you saying that it took years for her to get her and now because I am the one being rejected I want to fix things now.. I get that and understand. I need to have patience.

The OM is married, and works with her.

I cam home last night after spending the day with my mom and the kids and she advised that she is not going to be moving out that she feels her place is here. She indicated that we should consider selling. I told her that its important for the kids remain in the same school. I told her I dont want to sell before that and I said I may not sell as I gave her the option either buy me out or I buy her out.
The conversation was very amicable.
She came back into our bed last night. Her excuse was that she needed the alarm that we have in our room to wake her up to go to work.. lol!!!... I dont know what to make of that.

We did talk R talk yesterday. We had a few laughs actually and the night ended pretty good in my books. At the end, she made sure to remind me that "maybe it would be good to be away from each other for awhile".. She is just like her father, VERY STUBBORN!..

I have to get better and DBing..detaching.. and working on me.
I really love the comments etc from this board. It definately has helped me to see me and what I am doing..