I would say "I have decided that I will no longer pay to have the internet used in my own home to carry on inappropriate conversations with other men. I suggest you make other arrangements if that's what you feel you need to do."
W said she is apartment hunting today. I said good and felt it. If she chooses to move out to persue long distance EA than bye. I'll be dating before the last box is out the door.
I'm sure this is a bit premature, but I would assume I offer no help packing and moving items. Other than to make sure nothing of mine is walking out.
M=37 W=40 Married=10,T=12 D=10 D=8 WAW Bomb=1/12 EA confirmed=1/13 EA exposed=1/27 Current In house separation
Two schools of thought on it. Well, three actually. One says "No way in hell -- this is your choice, you need to live it." The second is to "be the better choice," and be their best friend, and a best friend would help you pack, right? And the third is that you are SO unaffected by this, and confident in your decision, and upbeat, that "sure, no big deal -- I'll help you pack."
We're getting way ahead of ourselves though. If it comes to that, I"ll tell you what I would do.