Hey HDWife, this sounds positive. Your H is more likely to be into being the chaser rather than chasee. Being coy might just be the way to go for you. How about reading some historical romance novels to pick up tips on how to behave coy? I'm sure it'll make him feel more like a MAN if he has to conquer you - do you get what I mean?
One time I did the coy thing with my H and he got all snarky on me because he thought he was being rejected, but I said "no, I just felt like being chased". That flipped a switch immediately!
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong