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What do I tell H???
Don't tell him anything. This is why NC is important. If you not NC yet, start now. IMHO there is nothing you can say that is the right answer.

You could ask me when did I stop beating my W? There is no answer.

Your H must start dealing with the fact that he wants to D you. That will result in NC. You have to live your life.

Me-70, D37,S36