I was thinking of telling my W that if she needed to talk, I was there to listen if she'd like.
My first thought was that it would be pressure to her, you know, like if you were to call her and tell her that and she would feel put on the spot. But, if you were together doing something else (or had been on the phone talking about other things), and started to say good-night and you added that on right as you were getting ready to leave, then it would give her time to think about it. I think it might work better if it were said face to face. Just make sure it doesn't sound like you are pressing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
