My W has been telling me we are getting D for 8 months. No action just talk. We were nc for about 6 months, and sleeping in the same bed. My kids are adults so the NC was somewhat easier. I would ignore her texts and FB as well. She is probably too depressed to carry thru with the action of divorce. She also deep down doesn't want it. I know it is hard because she keeps telling you she does. You can validate her feelings if you must by I personally like the NC approach to communicate your displeasure with this idea.
