CTH, one more thought as I reread your post and my reply to it:
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
The lady I'm interested in is going through her second divorce.
This has potential red flags all over it! Beware! Be curious! Find out why!

Of course, the irony that this warning comes from the twice-divorced Gardener does not escape me. crazy

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac