It depends on the state. In my state, he could not file legal sep without my consent. However, H told me he would file for a D if I didn't agree to the legal sep. He can do that without my agreement. Either way, you need to see a lawyer who will tell you what the court would give you in either case, what is a fair settlement, and what if anything, you should fight for. It's necessary for your own protection. See the L and get your ducks in a row.
