She's going to OM's country next week, supposedly to get some work training, not to see OM
Rubbish.
She's going to see OM.
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but of course I don't believe her.
Good.
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She always acts strange before going on the trips.
Mine was exactly the same.
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So now my W pulling out the stops to try to be my buddy again.
Trying to assuage her own guilt.
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She's asked me to go see our old MC with her after she gets back. She says she doesn't trust mediation anymore, but trusts our old MC.
Why?
What's the point in marriage counselling whilst she's active in an affair?
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She says we have some things to discuss and finalize.
Hmmm....
I've just read the last bits of your sitch Future. I think it's great that you're not allowing your children to leave the country. Don't even think about doing that for a second.
Also, I think it's excellent that you want a nothingship with her - I felt the same about my wife. Shortly before her OM threw her on the ****heap when she became pregnant to me, the mere sight of her would turn my stomach.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)