OP-Holy cow dude. You've replied to a few of my posts and it is much appreciated! Like you I have alot on my plate right now-Father having serious health issues, son with a mental health condition that left him homeless and in jail for 6 months, and now living with me, a business that has dropped 90% in 2 years and a wife that described a MLC w/o even knowing it today, and wishing life would end for her.
If challenges make us stronger, move over Arnold.
I do believe your wife with all her issues, is much ahead of mine most days. Mine moved out over 4 months ago for the 3rd time and informed me today she is moving 200 miles away, and has no desire to go to IC or MC and wants me to get on with signing her D filing-so I am.
You have several positives going for you. Lots of great advice given, and I learned alot for me while reading through your thread. Good luck to you, I'll be watching your progress, as we are darn near the same age, and similar sitch's. My wife's big db is in the bedroom, but the $$$ debate came up today too.
I expect to continue to learn from you and others on what I can do to make me better. Lead on.