Can't seem to move forward...Help!

[ClingingToHope]

Most of my friends are married and they listen - one of them has been so supportive and listens endlessly (she's a godsend) but it's hard for them to relate completely.

So true. I'd hear about friends divorcing and look at the relationship from the outside and say it was bound to happen. I had no idea the amount of pain that was involved.

I lost my mom suddenly 11 years ago and that hurt, but this has been like losing a loved one for 10 months. And I'm not even to the actual divorced part.

Sorry you ex was so calculating. My STBX thinks I'm hiding things from her. She thinks I've squirreled away a bunch of money. I don't even waste the time trying to explain to her that we were always broke while we were together even though we both make good money so how were we going to thrive apart supporting two households.

I'm thinking less and less about W and her thoughts though. That's good. Time is our only friend in this stuff.