Cutter, I have an idea as to why you might have felt guilty.
You have been married to ladybug for the last 10 years. You have been legally separated for a few weeks. It's like the phantom leg when your leg has been amputated...

okay does that make any sense?

The guilt is not rational but it is hard to not "feel married" KWIM???

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004