Trent, One of the best part of Retro are the couples who continue to be involved in the program. My post Retro experience with my W has been somewhat similar to yours. However I've reached out to a couple of the host couples and they are very helpful and supportive. I actually sat down this afternoon with a couple and my life is better for the experience.
So if you are feeling down or defeated, give one of the couples a call and have a cup of coffee or lunch. Hopefully your experience will be as rewarding as mine. Interestingly enough you'll here some of the same thing as you hear here; just in person.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09