WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

She really annoyed me Sat nite. I really gotta stop inviting her to dinner as I should've just had it w my boys. I did it since I was getting the boys early (it was her weekend with the boys but I had a family thing on Sun AM that I was taking the boys to NYC to).

She left early cuz she said her stomach was bothering her. No biggie but the boys wanted drop some left over dessert off at her apt after we were done. Stupid me took them. She wouldn't open the door when they rang the bell. The left it at her door and called her when they got in the truck

She answered and said she couldn't open the door as she just ran out. We could see the lights on in her apt and her suv in the parking spot. My boys begged her to open the door but she just said goodbye and hung up

My 7 year old asked to call her again as he went to bed. I let him call, but it went to her voicemail. I could see he and his little brother were really hurt/disappointed about it. After he hung up, he saddly said "It's Valentine's day tomorrow so she's probably out with a boy". I just gave him a hug and told him I loved him.

She called Sun AM as we were getting ready to leave. He asked if she got the dessert. She said yes and thanked him for it. Then he said good and hung up. I asked him how come he didn't tell her that he was upset that she didn't open the door last nite. He said it was because he didn't want to hear her excuse.

It really upset me but I didn't let him know it. I just gave him a hug and told him that we're going to have a great time visiting family in NYC and going to see the Dragon parade in Chinatown. He looked excited about that.

Seems like I'm not the only one done with dealing with her BS......