Husband had one strike and he made it when he started the online EA in May of 2009. I had not told him that he had one strike but really felt like I did not have to after all we had discussed in counseling. It is really the "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me'. I think I would have been albe to work through it if H had acted remorseful and continued counseling. Instead he makes excuses. He continues to tell me that he never got on (the site where he net online EA) to meet someone, it just happened. I was and still am angry that he wasted hours online with her when our marriage was crumbling. Afterwards, I found out he canceled one of our date nights that our counselor had suggested because he said he needed sleep (he works nights) when he had spend all day online with her.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
