I just hope she sticks to the plan of individual therapy. When I get home I'll do individual therapy, and then when the time is right we'll do co-counseling. I need to realize this didn't happen overnight, and neither will the repair. I need to give it time,and hope that we can begin to repair and rebuild one day. Sooner rather than later I hope. I didn't invest 17 1/2 years in this marriage to just let it go like that. This has been a very frustrating and sad process, and it's only just begun.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept