My H has said about the future once "you'll bring whoever you're dating" or something like that about something and I was just like, puhlease. Stop acting like you don't care. I seriously doubt if I showed up somewhere today with one of your buddies on my arm you would not freak out. I just get tired of the "I'm so over it" macho act. And it is somewhat an act. Even if he was having a flaming A tomorrow, he would still care. It's silly to say otherwise at this point. Maybe in another year he won't care ...