On the other hand, if my H was walking around bragging about his dating plan to my friend, which I think you said your H had done, I'd be fantasizing all kind of things I could do to metaphorically slap him in the face. So I'm certainly not judging you.
He wasn't bragging to her, just being open about his desire to date. More importantly, he casually mentioned dating as "something he hasn't done yet" last week to me, as if it was something that he was fully intending to do. Having a fling wouldn't be revenge for me, it would be simply not depriving myself of the freedom and enjoyment that my H apparently feels entitled to now that we're separated. I think that's what my IC wants to talk to him about.
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
