Hello mate. I am glad that you have made a decision which you're at peace with. I sincerely wish you and your wife the best with it all.
These things that you're requiring your wife to do are very important.
I'm struck by Puppy's post explaining that she still doesn't trust her. Well, you don't either and neither do I.
This is why:
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She keeps her bills that she's accumlated since she's been gone and I keep mine. She didn't like this one but she agreed.
She was obviously hoping that you would foot the bill for her adultery - directly or indirectly and whether she realises that explicitly or not.
She does look like she is beginning to develop some understanding of why you feel the way you do (see below):
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5. An STD check. I was very serious about this one--she said she understood.
Even my W understood why I did a DNA paternity test on our baby son.
Puppy is right she wants and definitely needs someone to hold her mercilessly accountable for her actions. It would actually be cruel not to as you would prevent her from ever learning from her mistakes.
Good luck AFWAW!!!!
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
