Originally Posted By: Onthemountaintop
You seemed to really want your marriage. Has that changed?
I really want my marriage. But if H is not having an A, he is planning to (when he talks about dating he is talking about sex). What do marriage vows count for when one person throws them out the window? Isn't it basically a tabula rasa situation?


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