I would give all callers his cell number and tell them to contact him there.. he's using you as his secretary.. don't allow that.
he has no reason to not take calls directly.. he's taking advantage.. I would'nt say it is bad, but its not helping your case... in future if you get any calls that are forhim.. direct them to contact him on his cell and not to call you ... your H will notice he's gettin gcalls directly.. he wont like it, but hat's a good thing
You do seem toget it yes.. you are the no drama choice, but you are a backup choice as long as you are in that house... and if he can just come by at any time you need to get OUT of there so he needs to ASK if he can contact you.. you can't go dark in your own home... sorry but it doen'st work well
