Sure you do. I don't know that it helps whatsoever, but try to think about talking to your children when they are teens and explaining why they should hold out to have sex, and they say, "But Dad, it feels soooooo good"! It's the principle behind the act. Besides, the act of sex can be a power tool for some people.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
