Well, gee Blownaway, I just read thru your whole thread.

Must be something in that great Aussie attitude towards life--you seem like you accepted, healed, and moved on very quickly.

I'm glad you were able to make those mental transitions so fast. And quitting smoking on top of it all--that's huge!

You are an inspiration to me. Maybe I can blame my slow process on gloomy New England skies and glum attitudes, vs. your sunny Aussie outlook?

Quite the story. Thanks for sharing.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process