Allen A & Puppy, Thank you again for all the great advice. I'm more determined now to follow through with going dark, even though it's been very hard for me to do in the past. I feel that now with the exposure of the A, and knowing that their talking to each other more now then ever is all part of the process. Now is the time to make me the no drama choice.
NOTE: I did text H about 2 hours ago. However it was only to inform him that the dentist called for him. All I put was "Dentist called to remind you of your appt tom" He replied with "k". I hope that wasn't bad, I figured it was ok because it wasn't anything to do with us. And I do get all the messages, which he doesn't have access too.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10