I really recommend you check out those books (Nuts, Inner Lives of Women) that I mentioned.
Finally found a copy of Hold Onto Your N.U.T.S. today! Only the third or fourth bookstore I went to...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement