Geezum--I guess I can't provide good advice re "dating" or "hooking up" as they say in college when there is still a M.

For me, I would say "go for it!" if there is someone who can make you feel better about yourself and boost your self-esteem.

I don't know what it would mean in terms of "pots calling kettles black" if you are still working on your M.

I wish I had someone to even consider having a fling with!

Just be safe, ladies!

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process