how do i keep my hope alive?

[trytryagain]

well, we tend to go to the same restaurants and bars, both of us dropping the "whatever you feel like" line. i think the biggest 180 in this situation would be for me to say something like, you know, i've been wanting to go ice skating this season, and i know you're so much better at it than i am, so maybe you could take me when we meet up.

i think i'll suggest ice skating and then dessert. both things we've never done together before.

usually for weekend outings i would suggest a museum, which he would not be all that thrilled with, so i think an activity we can do together like ice skating would be interesting to him. and me, since i've only done it about 3 times in my life!

thanks for the suggestions, OTM!