i could really use some advice. i just feel this is a very stressful environment and is like a pot boiling over. since we have already turned in a letter to move out of the apartment in 4 weeks and husband is intent on getting his own place should i just move out ahead of schedule and then go dark with husband? i will be moving back to our home state which is about 6 hours away. husband will remain in current state for his job. this is what he wants....to be on his own...part time dad! I just feel that I am getting blamed for everything and that I can't do anything right. it might be too late in my stitch but I just keep hoping that husband will actually hit rock bottom soon and make some adult decisions.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo