Flowmom, come on, you know that polyamorous whatever guy on FB was hinting at you doing something with them! Guys are so obvious LOL!
Look, I completely 100% agree that the quickest way to heal from a broken heart/get over someone is to meet someone else. This does not mean it is a good idea; I am just stating truth (for me and many girlfriends...sounds like you might have had a similar experience)
I think this is how our WSs are able to lose interest in us when there is an OP! Duh!
But yes...think about your sitch with your H. Will dating someone draw him to you or push him away? And I think it would be bad form/cruel/rude to leave condoms out! If he finds out you are dating, he can wonder if you are having sex. But being blatant about the sex is not so classy IMHO.
Yeah about parenting q's--I think you say "that's gotta be tough! They know how much you love them and you are doing your best." And then to your kids, "well, he is your dad and he loves you and you need to listen to him!"
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
