mb, you handled that so well! I hope that I'll be able to do that when/if we get to that point.

About your H's concern for OW, that makes sense to me. Part of the attraction to her was probably her neediness, and his sense that he could be a knight in shining armour for her. But of course, men get pretty bored of the knight role...just be patient.


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