Depression is the ultimate killer of the sex drive, IME.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
He again said "how can I be making love to you when we are like THIS?". Hmmm, he is right in a way but on the other hand if we did make love, make we wouldnt be like THIS. It's the egg and the chicken once again...
Could you do something like offer him a friendly massage and hint that you'd love it to be reciprocated? That would be a loving, non-verbal gesture to connect on the physical level without it being sexual. You can't fail at receiving a massage. But talking...that's a cheeseless tunnel for you guys.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
