So now he gets to have his soap opera life OR his family... you are an easy choice now...
So you make the choice harder.. make him work for it...
If he shows up and folds and offers you whatever you want.. DON'T take it... you hold out for a while until you are sure he means it... you tell him you will think on it... and that your children are your first priority... and he needs to start looking like a father and a husband... and he hasn't lately...
That's the key... YOU keep being a wife and a mother.. and HE looks bad... and he will know it...
No man wants to be a disgrace to his family... he will man-up to this soon, I can feel it... But you need to play cold right now... as cold as you can.
