First off, thank you VERY much for the links to all the resources; I'd been digging for a couple of days trying to figure out where they were. :)I'd found some of them, but not all.
I'm glad that what I was able to contribute has helped someone on their journey toward being whole; with or without his/her spouse.
You're all very welcome.
You'll all be fine, even if you don't believe it right now..I promise you will; regardless of what happens.
And I agree wholeheartedly with Snodderly being a legend; she helped me alot; help I have NEVER forgotten; and it is a tribute to her dedication that she is still here; amongst the other mentors whom I don't know as yet. I just never saw myself as one, but thank you for saying that. All that ever mattered was that I helped someone.
Take care of yourselves and your families..and I'll be talking to you.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.