I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

HI Lea,
That's where I'm at. I think he's too cowardly to actually do it so he's trying to get me to. I'm just not going to. I don't need to - I have the house and the ability to contribute what I WANT to our joint bills. If he doesn't help out - I'm not afraid of protecting myself with a bankruptcy. He's already ruined my credit. At least then it will be over and I can just START OVER fresh at that point. L says I can keep the house no matter what. That's what I want out of all this - I don't care about the rest.

I'm just struggling in general. He doesn't want me but he's not man enough to admit it to anyone. I just don't get it.

Oh Well - I will just stick to the plan I layed out for him in the email and he can deal with the consequences.


Thanks for the support!!

T