I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[lea74]

He probably doesnt want to be the one to admit the marriage didnt work. He is being a coward and doesnt want to admit failure. In years to come he can well you filed - I didnt.

My H insisted that I filed and I didnt. I said that there was no way - I dont believe in D and also it is against my churchs beliefs. The only grounds I would consider filing on was Adultery - and he will never admit to that either. He did file eventually in the end. There is no advantage for me - expect he has to do all the work. Also I can hold my head up high with my kids and can I say I didnt end the marriage or destroy our family, it was their dad's choice.