The only comments the judge made is that he thinks a lot of our communication problems are b/c we both referred to the kids as "my son" or my daughter rather than our son and our daughter....Right....that'll solve everything!
You know, there's no winning there either. Whenever I try to refer to S9 and S5 as "our S's" or "our children", xW just bristles with seething anger -- she refuses to acknowledge that she and I share anything.
