I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[blownaway65]

Stay Strong Tal.

Being from Oz, I have no idea about the workings of D over there.

Is there some advantage/disadvantage to being the one to File for D?, we just have no fault (irreconcilable differences, 1 year separation then 50/50 split of assets on settlement) - way too easy IMO.

Glad you have L involved, just make sure you don't sell yourself short.

In the long run you'll both lose financially, maybe H isn't quite willing to commit to D yet, or maybe he wants to keep you as a backup. It's your decision though, not his.

You didn't start this whole thing Tal, but you're the one in control. Make the best of it that you can.