I will defiently make an effort to be gone when he shows up. I know I won't always be able to avoid him, and after last night I feel like I can deflect him if I have too. However, I'm usually not successful at it, so I will try to avoid him as much as possible.
The one thing that is bothering me since the whole letter thing, is how he seems so worried about her. He acts like her feelings are so much more important then mine. Almost like he cares about her more. I know I shouldn't read much into this, but it still bothers me.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10