You seem to really have some feelings that need sorting out about the financial dependence you had on your H.
Yes, everything you wrote is very true. I do need to sort out those feelings, because they prevent me from seeing things clearly, and could screw up D negotiations. I don't seem to have a problem spending $$ that H earns, but I feel no entitlement to it. I think I'll talk to my IC about this.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
