TTA - No problem. I understand completely. We must stay focused on our goals to reconcile with our spouses (if possible) regardless of what our parents want us to do. As I am learning from the advice here in this forum, only we can chose what is right for us. Just like others say - we cannot control what our spouses say or do, neither should we allow our parents to do the same to us.
They care and they love us, but I know for me, I have to take a step back and just say thanks, but I can decide for myself.
You keep hanging in there.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
