When do you request your spouse end an EA?

[Kelly23]

My husband said those things and more Dani. Be cautious. Your H is a big LIAR! I am sure he has told OW that he loves her even though he is telling you he does not. Likewise I am sure he has told OW some horrible and private things about you.

Did you tell him she has to work somewhere else? Unless she is breaking policy, he will not be able to force her to go. Can you deal with it then?

Thik about this...it took 2 years to get where you are now. It will probably take twice that much to get where you really want to be. There will be good days and there will be days when you feel like throwing in the towel. It is a long journey. Do not try to rush it.