Here's the thing, Dani. He can BE, completely sincere in his DESIRE to end contact. Many, many alcoholics WANT to stop drinking.
But without a firm no-contact communication to her, and a good transparency plan in place, what I'm saying is that I don't think he will be ABLE to.
Betrayed spouses make a dangerous mistake when they try to judge their suddenly-contrite, cheating spouse's SINCERITY and INTENTIONS, rather than focusing on doing EVERYTHING that can be done to ensure that it's not a repeat performance.
NO-CONTACT LETTER. TRANSPARENCY PLAN. MCing WITH AN MC TRAINED IN INFIDELITY COUNSELING.
