So my GAL this morning wasn't too exciting: going to the drug store. I found myself in the condom aisle trying to figure out whether to buy some. Hmmmm. I know that jumping into bed with someone is probably not a healthy way to deal with the situation. OTOH, it's amazing how helpful it can be! I did that a million years ago, the last time my heart was broken.

PS: how do I interpret it when, in FB, the guy in a family that we're friends with suggests that I become a fan of a polyamory political activist group? This has never come up in conversation when we've hung out at birthday parties and music festivals! whistle Is this an attempt to indirectly share something personal about their life, or???


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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