Allen A, I forgot to mention, that the next day he informed that the OWH parents also got the letter. So her family has now been told.
The thing that makes me crazy right now, is how the OW and my H are convinced that it was me that sent the letter. I was tempted to do something like that, however I never did.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10